How many "friends" do you have on facebook?:) Today was speaking to friend of mine and e bragged about having 4000 "friends"... but on the question "How many of them you ever met?" or "How many of them actually keep any communication with you" he pointed just few... The point is why is that mania to have so much "friends' on the list? Maybe the bragging is the best option for that...In my Facebook, i have amount of people, i met in real life and more of them i didn't... but plan to. I try to keep certain lever of communication, with people , who seems to have some interest in the communication with me MORE than the pictures i post there. But i see some doesn't have that interest, answering every message with 3-6 words just not to offend you.. why keep them? Because they are sexy? Because the level of communication is limited? Hell, why bother?
I have also very judged behavior. A lot of Questions are "You always say to the guys that you love them, although u never met them, and its superficial"... no.. i really love my friends on there... by "friends' definition i mean those who keep the communication and appreciate me, everything i post. Even those i fall into disagreement, because difference is something beautiful...and it can create great friendships...
I met really sweet guys on there. Some of them reached me outside Facebook, for anything. Guys, who proved that they are real, beautiful friends. U can get a lot of benefits online. Plus, I plan to meet more of them. My home is always open for those, who really want to get to know me, and be friends with me. I will never ever leave someone unwelcome on street, or make them feel not home. I always gave the best of me, to provide the best, although few times unappreciated. But i can be real friend. And real man. I always stand for what i say there, and never hide something...
So, about Facebook. I never unfriend people, unless i have reason to. But the most thrilling thing is, that some unfriend me, because of stupid reasons. Something i said, and they disagreed, my "big tights", " not responding to them(hell i try my best)", or they just find me ugly... but NONE of them, reached me with patience and understanding to make an effort to get to know me...
A lot of men there are very sexy. Bodies, InkedKenny pictures, "Muscle Gods" and a lot of muscle worshipers. Some of them are my friends. Some are very arrogant, BIG EGO, and think they are really Gods and all are about "me me me me"... Some are very humble and very sweet and they always reach to me without any ignoring and always reach me first, and they always write, or chat at first chance...
In the end of the day , im one normal guy, who just happens to be real, and always share whats going on my life, on facebook, because sometimes, its a easy way to escape from the reality and share it with so beautiful guys, like you all. Life is hard, and sometimes, all you need is to get some good word sometimes. Im so thankful, that i really met people, who take me s iam, and can see thru the distance, and trust me. It's very important to me. Thank you. That way made me know, who will be real friend and in real life.
I LOVE you all:)
Slavi, you know you are my Eastern European baby!
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